GET
AHEAD IN LIFE THE BEYONCE WAY
Determination
to succeed made the singer a star and goal setting could
also help others to achieve their dream By
Barbara McCarthy.
| BEYONCE
KNOWLES always wanted to be a star. From the time
she started singing in her local church choir, the
young Texan had fame in her sights. Knowles became
a member of Destiny’s Child, a popular female
R&B group, before embarking on a solo career.
The 23-year-old has since taken the world by storm
as an actress, songwriter, producer, model and award-winning
singer.
While
she seems like a natural, Knowles says it hasn’t
been easy. “I’ve worked harder than anybody
I’ve ever seen,” she said. Her drive,
focus and dogged determination to succeed has seen
her overcome obstacles to achieve her dreams. Knowles
had a definite goal in mind and worked towards it.
Where many people fall down is that they are afraid
to set out a career plan for fear they might not achieve
it and would feel like failures, says Jackie Fitzpatrick,
a life and career coach who heads up Freedom Unlimited.
“What
people want is a guarantee but, as we know, there
are very few guarantees in life,” she said.
“So we just settle for drifting through life,
making ends meet and leaving little time for further
planning.” Those who do sit back and assess
their lives sometimes realise that they have chosen
the wrong career path. At that stage they may be in
their thirties with family and financial commitments.
“Deciding to plan the rest of their career at
that point can be daunting,” said Fitzpatrick. |

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There
is no need to be put off, however, says Rowan Manahan, the
managing director of Fortify Services, the career management
and outplacement firm, as planning ahead is something we
all do every day. “We would never get into our cars
and go on a journey without a destination in mind, so why
do we not have a destination in mind when it comes to our
careers?” said Manahan. Your career is more than likely
your sole revenue stream in your life and it governs your
wealth and a large part of your happiness, so it is important
to create some kind of a working plan.
This
can be done by recognising the skills and knowledge that
you have acquired through your life and then aligning them
with your values, says Fitzpatrick. “Ask yourself
what is important to you in your life and what ways of being
do you value most. Then generate a list of projects and
careers that are possible manifestations of your ideal work
vision,” she said.
A
career plan should be broken up into short-, medium- and
long-term goals, says Cathy Roberts, a life coach. “Like
any goals, it should be a ‘smart’ plan. That
means it should be specific, measurable, attainable, realistic
and timely,” she said. Targets should be written somewhere
you can see them often to remind yourself what you are aiming
for. That is exactly what Roberts did when she decided to
change direction and make a plan for her future. “Up
to two years ago I was working in marketing in the UK,”
she said. “I was stressed out and exhausted with no
motivation to go into work every day.” There was no
sense of achievement no matter how successful her projects
were, she says. “I left my job and took time to really
think about what I wanted,” said Roberts. “Knowing
I was good at motivating colleagues, friends and family
and that I was a doer, I decided to do a diploma in life
coaching and became an NLP (neuro-linguistic programming)
practitioner.” NLP looks at how people communicate
and how their subjective experience is affected by it. That
knowledge is then used to change a person’s behaviour.
Making
the decision was the hard part but once Roberts had decided
to act, things just fell into place, like they do when you
know you have made the right decision, she says. “I
could not be happier with my career choice and I update
my plan regularly in order to stay focused,” she said.
That’s
why it is important to have a pen and paper ready at all
times, says Carol Anne Casey, a human resource consultant
and managing director of CA Consulting. “When you
start writing things down it gets your mind working and
you get more ideas,” said Casey. “This way you
also evaluate your strengths and weaknesses and find out
which possibilities are open to you.” It also helps
you to recognise which steps you have to take next such
as returning to college. “Decide whether you have
to go on a course or get further education, or whether you
need to join a social body or association in order to network,”
she said.
Whether
you decide to go in a new direction or to focus on your
present career, don’t be too rigid with your plans,
says Maureen Gilbert, a life coach. Remember something that
is flexible can survive any amount of change. “Your
aspirations may change along the way,” said Gilbert.
“So be careful not to be too specific in your plan
in one area. Saying that you want to have your boss’s
job in five years’ time puts you in a very restrictive
position. In these precarious times, your company could
be outsourced next week.” If you are not so sure what
you want to do, but you want to devise a career plan anyway,
the key is to consider what you enjoy. “At first you
can be as honest as you wish with yourself, even if the
career in question may seem slightly out of your reach,”
said Gilbert. “Then think about the aspects of that
job that you like and the aspects of that job that you wouldn’t
like. The main thing is to remember to recognise what you
are actually looking for.”
An
average career spans almost 40 years so it is important
to choose something that makes you happy, says Manahan.
Don’t be too worried if things don’t go your
way, however. “Draw up a contingency plan against
something going wrong,” he said. Don’t let fear
of failure stop you from trying. Remember the ultimate reason
for setting goals is to entice you to become the person
it takes to achieve them.
Those
who have drifted through their careers thus far should be
aware that this may be obvious on their curriculum vitae,
according to Claire Cronin, a director of Cronin Associates,
the executive search firm. “As a head-hunter, the
red flag comes up when the candidate’s progression
is not consistent,” she said. “It shows up as,
for instance, an unusual jump, unexplained gap or short
tenure in more than one job.” The best way to compensate
for this is to clearly and quickly demonstrate the evolution
of skill sets, good pace in terms of increase in responsibility
and quantifiable results. “If your CV shows that you
have taken the scenic route, it is vital to highlight your
skills and attributes and demonstrate how they have made
a positive contribution to previous employers,” said
Cronin. Determine what is needed to succeed in the job on
offer and then use past experience to shine in that role.
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